Isabelle Nazare-Aga, in his book " The manipulators are here "describes them perfectly and gives thirty characteristics that can identify them. Some are obvious with regard Ahsim, here they are:
- he blames others in the name of family ties, friendship, love ... ..
- he defers his responsibility onto others
- it does not clearly communicate its demands, feelings or opinions
- he criticizes, demeans and
judge - he sows discord and creates suspicion and rule
- He moves to victim to complain that the disease, etc. ...
exaggerated - it ignores the request, even if he claims
deal - he disguised threat or blackmail is open
- and focused on the ignorance of others and a belief in its superiority
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he lies - he preaches the false for the true knowledge, misquote and interprets them in his own way
- he is egocentric
- he can not stand criticism and deny the obvious
- it ignores the rights, needs or desires of others
- he uses very often the last moment to ask , or order others to act
- it uses flattery to please, made gifts and gets very caring for each other
- it produces malaise or a sense of unfreedom
- it is quite effective in achieving its own goals, but at the expense of others
- it is constantly discussed among people who know him, even though it is not there. That
19 characteristics that identify well the actions of our heroes, while ten manipulative enough to be recognized!
For each of these lines, the memories come flooding back.
And it's true that in this story had Ahsim vacuum around his girlfriend all the friends had departed, lost in the maze of a friendship scorned, old, however, for most of them. Every time
Ahsim spoke of his illness, we now know it is less serious than it claimed, through the description of his studies in computer marketing, accounting and Ahsim what else?
And every time he finished with a display of his wealth, which, one suspects, not to the liking of everyone.
Egocentric, oh yeah, he was. Everything revolved around him, which would hardly have been to the taste of Copernicus!
the morning, every morning, we had to wear his cup of cocoa in bed, and rarely is standing before fourteen hours largely spent and every evening, as I said, nights, his wife slept on the sofa because Ahsim awake until dawn by zapping its TV programs to five hundred, and had Fear of being alone!
I have often wondered how he does now that he is truly alone, who then holds his hand in his troubles sometimes triggered by the sight of a simple spider!
Ahsim never wrong, not worth discussing, it is always right. When this fails he does, it's always the fault of someone else. He declared bankruptcy? That's because his girlfriend left him!
How not afraid to show also manipulate his "son" when you see how he dominates his friends, his family, his puppets planet!
Ha! He has played with the sentiments.
He wants to make a good marriage? No problem, we send the invitations, we rounded up everyone, we visit the place, which must be equal to the situation, we order the wedding dress, nothing is too good for the party intended by Ahsim.
Because again, it was he who wanted, as it is not healthy, you never know .... Mom, Dad, So open your wallet ...
It would also focus his girlfriend, so helpful, it handles so well ... .. He feels it escapes him ... ever ... a little ....
only downside, and it is great, but paradoxically it is also the straw that breaks the camel's back, nearly a month before the ceremony, he cancels the wedding at the town hall.
How in these conditions do not feel betrayed, manipulated, yes again ... .... What rhymes then the party that eventually they will blame the companion who is free of such obstacles lying! Proud as
Artaban our Ahsim that day, but it was effective without the sound of chains that decided to break ...
Even the rhetoric charged by all puppets satellite failed to retain the inexorable march of the desire to escape this artificial world of zircon. A follow
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